Does he just want to have sex but not cuddle

Women often complain that their boyfriends or husbands want to have sex but don't want to cuddle. Some men feel cuddling makes them look weak. They like to appear like strong knights in shining armour so the obvious alternative is sex. Making love can help your partner feel more comfortable with cuddling but it takes time and emotional security for that to happen. Sexual intimacy is so important.
A way to create that sexual intimacy is by playing games in the bedroom. Helps one to laugh and let their guard down. This helps the intimacy.

That is one of the main reasons that I like to post little bedroom games. You don't have to go out and buy books etc, I do the research for you :-) If I like them, I post them. Here is one for tonight

Make your bedroom a private picnic area

Stretch out a blanklet on the bedroom floor, light some candles, feed each other some strawberries than sprinkle the strawberry juices on each other and lick them off.


If you have some good bedroom games, feel free to post

Have a great night

Try some fun bedroom toys also

Are you and your partner going through a dry spell

All couples (no matter how close they are) can hit a dry spell. The everyday stresses of life can get to everyone. This can sometimes leave you just too worn out to be in a romantic mood
Stress is one of the biggest factors that disrupt your sex drive
How to change this,
Make your home a stress free environment. Get a babysitter for the kids for the evening (if you have kids) Don't worry about the cleaning and chores that need to be done. They will still be there the next day. Forget about them for the evening.
Change your routine. Go to a different restaurant, do something different, something fun. Laughter and fun are so good for your health.
Light some candles around the bedroom, change the bedroom environment, engage in foreplay- Touch each other, feel each other's bodies. Get the juices flowing

Give each other a 10 minute massage each. This helps to get you both relaxed and gets you feeling each other again

Just some fun ways to get naked tonight LOL

No Truth or Dare tonight
Just some fun ways to get naked in the cold (It's cold where I live right now LOL)

Try turning up the heat in your car, turn on the seat warmers (if you have them) and have a backseat romp like you were back in highschool

Use warming lube during bedroom fun

Drip some warm chocolate syrup on your bodies than slowly lick it off each other

Just do something fun, LAUGH WITH EACH OTHER!! Laughter, communication and good sex- Great ways to a great relationship

Have a good night!!!

Happy Valentines Day

Oh- The day of love :-)

What would be a little fun truth or dare for Valentines Day?

Here we go, Dare for the evening
It's time to raid the fridge. Have your partner go to the kitchen and fetch a bottle of chocolate syrup, whipped cream or another food item that can be used on your body. Remove your shirt, lie down on the ground and let your partner draw bull's-eyes around your nipples with the food (or for tonight, make it hearts instead of bulls-eyes- It is Valentines day after all LOL) Then let your partner drip a beverage or food item on your nipples. If they hit the bull's-eye, allow them to lick the target clean.

OK- a little truth
If you and your partner were offered large sums of money to perform erotic acts in a nightclub, what is the most daring and scandalous routine you would perform for the right sum? What would you do for five thousand dollars? for 25 thousand? for 100 thousand? Name your price for specific acts and the costumes or props you would need.


Happy Valentines Day to All